What is baby shower? And do you really need to throw one? These are the oft-asked questions for first time baby shower hosts.
Baby showers were traditionally given to first time mothers. However, as the years went on, people felt the need to celebrate each baby on the way. Now, baby showers are very common in the western world.
Baby showers are held during the last quarter of the pregnanc. There are some, however, which prefer to celebrate it as soon as there is confirmation of pregnancy. In cases of adoptive parents, baby shower is thrown by a host - usually a close friend of the mother - once the baby arrives.
If it’s your first time to host a baby shower, then you may need tips on how to plan and organize and beautiful and memorable baby shower. Here are some practical tips you might need to keep in mind:
1. Theme, Motiff and Decorations - The first step is to think of a theme or motiff to plan your shower around. Having a theme cuts your decision-making time by half. It’s easier when you know which decorations and colors you should be getting. It’s also more cost-efficient, too.
2. Budget - You don’t need to spend much on a baby shower to make it beautiful and memorable. List down the preferences and interests of the mom-to-be and possible affordable alternatives to such choices. It’s important to have a budget before you start spending.
3. Invitations - Your invites should fit the theme or the motiff. Again, it doesn’t have to be expensive. Don’t forget to put in all the information on the event including the name of the mom, the name of the baby - if the parents have decided on a name already - the venue, the theme, RSVP details, and a note on whether it’s a surprise party or not.
4. The Food - Your budget must include a large portion for the food you will be serving. Again, you don’t have to prepare gourmet feast - you just need to prepare enough for the number of guests you plan to invite. Are you serving a full meal? Will it just be cocktails? Will it fit your theme? These are some things you have to consider.
5. What to Do - The purpose of a baby shower is to show support to the new parents. Parents can hardly show their support if they simply show up, drink punch, leave their gifts on the table and leave the venue. There has to be moments of bonding. The only way to do this is to have games that are mom-and-baby centered.